I have been dealing with my abusive ex as he is the father of my youngest. He is still trying to control what I do and telling me I’m an unfit mother. Does it hurt? It does, but only for a moment! I know I’m a good mother. I know I’m a great person. Am I perfect? Not even close lol. But I know my worth and he cannot take that from me no matter what he says! He can make all the accusations he wants to, but the fact is, they aren’t real. And anyone who chooses to believe him is definitely not any part of my life and he has them fooled. Honestly, I feel sorry for those people. He can say he has changed all he wants, but when people in his life close to him call me crying about what he is doing, I know he hasn’t. But he is good to my son at this time and that is all I care about.
I have peace in the midst of his accusations, and I know everything will work out as it always does. He claims he is taking me to court for custody. It’s sad that he even thinks he needs to with the fact that I let him see his son whenever his son wants to should be a testament to my character. Just yesterday my son wanted to stay at his house. I have these days off and really wanted to spend them with my son, but he wanted to stay there. So I told him he could. Ultimately, all I care about is my son’s happiness. Even though his father will claim otherwise. I am the bigger person and always will be. He can’t change my loving heart! ❤️ I am beyond proud of who I am and what I stand for. I will never let him destroy me or my children again. I am at peace. ❤️❤️❤️